Those working in CSA Prevention repeatedly hear the following myths.

Only paedophiles sexually abuse children – in reality a lot of abuse is opportunistic perpetrated by those not normally sexually attracted to children

Paedophiles are easy to detect – in fact, they can be anybody, but most are men (between 1-4%). Paedophiles are often hidden in plain sight and may operate for decades before being apprehended.

Child sex offenders are mainly strangers – in fact, most are known to their victims

Child sex offenders are ‘lone wolves’– in fact there is a growing body of evidence that paedophiles actively affiliate as it increases their access to victims

People who abuse their own children are not a danger to other children – not true

Parents are to blame when their child is abused– in reality, parents are often blindsided by abusers

CSA cannot be prevented – in reality, where grooming is detected, adults can intervene to prevent abuse

Only children from poorer backgrounds are abused – in fact, victims come from any socioeconomic group

The accounts of children are unreliable – in reality, it is extremely rare for children to make up abuse

Children invite their abuse – this is called adultification. Children cannot consent to sexual activities

CSA is accepted in some cultures – in reality, abuse is universally considered reprehensible and abhorrent

Conversation starters?

1. What is the consequence when people believe myths?
2. Could you add to this list?

Reference–  https://bravehearts.org.au/about-child-sexual-abuse/myths-about-child-sexual-abuse